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“Those who cannot trust, control.”

“Those who cannot trust, control.” I’m still processing this deep observation. Wow. I think it will be very useful in management, too....

We need to do better. 

I asked a mentee yesterday why she has no LinkedIn profile picture; and initials for a name. I was about to give her a lecture on the...

Learn to trust yourself more.

was thinking about some of my life decisions yesterday, and the difference between regret when I didn’t listen to someone else’s advice,...

Zoning out is not resting!

My Father’s Day present was 24 hours off from life — I had an evening and a morning to myself, in a hotel room, alone, with no...

It takes time and effort to care. 

It takes time and effort to care. Especially at work. So if you have a friend, a manager, a colleague, who cares, make sure you notice...

The power of stopping.

It’s incredible what just one or two days of stopping can do. Issa has been pretty sick for a week. Multiple trips to urgent care,...

Professionals of color are PIONEERS. 

I was catching up with a managing partner of an AmLaw 10 firm and they said the firm’s management is struggling to understand why so many...

Frame unwanted things in positive ways.

I was catching myself saying a lot of don’ts to Issa: “Don’t climb the table!” “Don’t run around with a pen!” “Don’t put that in your...

Don’t be afraid to face who you are.

If there’s one thing I could tell my younger self, it’s this: “Don’t be afraid to face who you are.” Much of our lives, we are running...

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